Saturday, August 15, 2015

More than Halfways through the Year...Goal Progress

What a year so far? I honestly, as with every year, had such high hopes for 2015. When I wrote my goal post I don't think I had any idea what I was in for in the coming months no matter how manageable my goals might have been. Little did I know that two and a half months in I would end up having surgery that pretty much affected my life until the end of June. So, with that being said, I haven't made much progress with my 2015 goals.

What I wanted to accomplish and hopefully still can:

Do a weekly RANDOM ACT OF KINDNESS.
I wouldn't say every week but I'm working on it.

Get back in shape with LOW IMPACT EXERCISE
Well, I would say since I finally have been released from PT and am back on a workout schedule that I am getting back in shape. I really couldn't make any headway with this goal until after June.

READ.
I started off the year so well and then when I had my surgery I would fall asleep every time I read, so now I'm super behind on my reading goals.

SIMPLIFY.

TRAVEL.
We went to Williamsburg and hopefully NYC in the fall but that's it. We need to save money for a house.

BLOG.
Let's say I didn't really work on this until the beginning of the month. Hopefully, I have made it a habit.

ORGANIZE the apartment.
Working on it...

Save money and BUY A HOUSE.
In the pre-approval process!!

Be HEALTHY.

Spend more time with FRIENDS and FAMILY.

Let's just say I have a lot of work to do still but I'm making progress now that I'm up and moving around!

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Mouse Island


Again, with the steady breeze and beautiful sunshine I'm longing to go sailing. I found this short story I wrote in my creative writing class at La Roche. Again, about sailing, which most of my creative pieces seemed to be. This piece might be loosely based on a true story.

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The day began as a beautiful, cool morning with a steady breeze blowing from the Northwest.  The shore was filled with men, women and young adults preparing their sailboats for one of the most important races of the summer, the Mouse Island Race.  Earlier that week, the advanced sailing class had decided that eight of them would sail double-handed in the race.  The girls filled three boats and the boys were in another.  The boys bragged that the two of them would smoke the girls and would return first.  The two, trying to be funny, wore sombreros on the boat.

As the large group of sailors prepared for the race, the announcer began to recite the rules.  The actual race consisted of a four-mile sail to the island, sailing around the island, and a four-mile return trip.  Paddling and collisions with other boats were prohibited.  The single-handed Sunfish began the race.  Five minutes after the first round of boats had started, the double-handed sailors shoved off.  The sailors were expected to remain in the water and not in the boats until the whistle blew, making the start extremely difficult.

From the group of students from the advanced sailing class, there were two sisters, Leigha and Rosie.  The eldest of the two, Leigha, was the captain and the younger, Rosie, the crew.  This was not the first race the two had sailed and they were confident that this race would be an easy straight shot to and from the island.  The previous summer, they had sailed double-handed in their first regatta.  They had come in last, but all the experienced sailors had congratulated them and encouraged them that it was excellent practice for future races.  Leigha and Rosie had been taking sailing lessons for years now and had been practicing in the afternoons following their lesson.  Their sailing skills had progressed over the years even though they only sailed two weeks each summer while on vacation.
As the double-handed group left the confines of the harbor, the two sisters were clearly in the lead.  The two were ecstatic they were actually winning.  There was good-natured joking between the boys and the girls but before long they were too far away from each other to carry on an audible conversation.

The group was headed straight for the island, but after an hour or two the Sunfish all began to tack since the wind had shifted.  As the tacking progressed, the sisters fell back and pretty soon were one of the last boats.  By this time, the other three boats from the sailing class had given up and returned to shore.  Leigha and Rosie were determined not to quit and they were firm in their decision to finish the race, even if they were last.  The tacking continued until the island was clearly visible.

The two sisters discussed their methods of tacking the sail around the island.  There were many obstacles to overcome before the return trip.  The other side of the island was right in the path of a ferryboat traveling to another island.  The wake from this large boat was enough to turtle a small craft.  The waters around the island were extremely shallow and would be very challenging to navigate without paddling or getting out of the boat. 

Unfortunately, the determined sisters would not have to combat any of these obstacles to overcome before the return trip.  Leigha and Rosie decided that after sitting for a while, that they would return home and forfeit the race.  The decision was a difficult one, because they had come so far only to be rejected of the satisfaction of completing the most important part of the race.  The task of returning home was easier said then done.

The return trip was much longer than expected.  Normally, the return trip would be somewhat faster due to the wind being directly behind the boat causing the boat to run.  On that morning though, all the wind could do was cause the sail to luff.  The five to fifteen knot winds that had begun the race and prompted the sisters into the lead were now gone and the two floated the four miles back to shore.  Less than a mile from the shore, the two completely gave up.  The boat was not moving, and they were drifting in the wrong direction rather than towards shore.  

The captain, Leigha, figured she had already lost her chance at winning this race and they were already disqualified; why not paddle.  She began to paddle not caring what the people in charge were thinking.  As the boat inched closer to shore, the wind picked up enough to sail through the harbor onto shore.

The remaining onlookers cheered and clapped as the two slid out of the boat and began to de-rig the boat.  The two than solemnly explained that the wind had died and they never really made it around the island.  The announcer still congratulated them and told them it was a hard race.  The race was for experienced sailors and they had done their best.  The two were proud of themselves anyway; they still had much improvement before winning a race but the sisters had beat the rest of their class and had done what they were capable of doing.  Mouse Island was now just another race added to their repertoire, a race that taken five hours.  On began as winners and ended as semi-experienced sailors.

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Goodbye Summer, Hello Fall!

I'm a summer girl. I pretty much hate when its less than 80 degrees out and the sun isn't shining. And I won't lie, it depresses me an awful lot come fall when the weather starts I getting cooler. It's already too cold out for me. I thrive on humidity. There are some things that excite me about fall and I've been thinking about it more and more since everyone seems to be posting about pumpkin ales and coffees. I can't say I like either of those but here are some things I'm looking forward to:

Fall Road Trips
Fall is my busy time at work for travel, so I'll be heading to Penn State once and Hershey twice for conferences and meetings. Of course there will also be a trip or two to Lakeside, which I love just as much in the shoulder seasons and we are still planning our "big" trip in November.

Football
I'm so excited to start watching football games again and reading about the Raiders kicking everyone's butts! I'm ready for some Packers games too. Oh yeah, and Steeler games too, which we are hoping to go to a Thursday night game in September.

Friendsgiving
Not gonna lie, I'm probably looking forward to this the most. What could be better than friends, food and football in the park? And this year, I'm not injured so maybe my football game will be better!

Fires
Would you believe that we haven't had one fire the entire summer? Well, I guess we kind of had one at the very beginning of June. The beginning of summer was too wet, then it was too warm and we were really busy. Tonight would have been good for that.

Of course, I'll hike and play golf and maybe some tennis but fall really isn't my season. These will get me through to the holiday season but I'm already mourning the end of summer.

Goodbye summer! I know you aren't over yet but I miss you already!

Monday, August 10, 2015

Book Review: The Wednesday Sisters

The Wednesday Sisters was another title I picked up at that recent book sale. I had never even heard of it before and really had no idea what to expect. Well, I was pleasantly surprised. It was wonderful and one that might be a keeper and one that I reread again another summer.


There were so many reasons why I loved this book. It was about a group of friends. It was about a group that talked about reading and later writing. It followed the space program and other big events in history. It wasn't the first book I read about the 1960s/1970s but the one thing I really didn't like was how women were treated as only a wife and mother. I knew this but for some reason this book was much more honest about it.

The Wednesday Sisters reminded me a lot of Angry Housewives Eating Bon-Bons. The book is about five women - Allie, Frankie, Linda, Kath and Brett - who meet at the playground while their children play the morning Robert F. Kennedy is shot and realize they have a common interest in literature and writing. Together, they embark on a writing journal. First, by writing together for an hour each Wednesday morning and then critiquing each others work during the week and bringing it back to discuss. The writing helps the women is more ways then they can imagine.

The book takes place over the course of five years. The women go from strangers in the park to best friends. Each woman has to overcome their own trials - infertility, breast cancer, infidelity and insecurity - but with the help of the Wednesday Sisters they each survive stronger. The friendship starts with a common interest in the Miss American Pageant but as the women age and realize what is going on in the world see the pageant for more than ball gowns and swimsuits, more than a beauty pageant. And they see themselves as more than wives and mothers.

It took everything I had to do anything but read this weekend. I definitely cheated on my to-do list yesterday, so that I could finish the book. I was a bit disappointed in the ending but other than that this was a great book. If you liked Angry Housewives, you'll love this one. Check it out!

Happy Reading!

Saturday, August 8, 2015

Summer Fun: Guyasuta Days Festival

Looking for something to do this week/weekend, why not come to Kennedy Park in Sharpsburg for the Guyasuta Days Festival?

I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a fair or festival person. I don't play bingo. I don't play carnival games. I don't do raffles. I don't ride carnival rides, except I did do the slide one year. I don't really eat fair food with the exception of a walking taco or cheese fries. I guess you could just say I'm cheap and boring. Dennis would say I'm cheap. Yet, I've been roped into the Guyasuta Days Festival and I enjoy it. Why you might ask?

Well, aside from the delicious walking taco made by the festival commitee and cheese fries from the fire department, I love the people watching. It relaxes me to just sit and watch from the sidelines everyone enjoying themselves. I love the camaraderie of the event - everyone coming together in a show of community - churches, civic and community organizations all working together. I love that it benefits multiple community organizations - fire department and library are just two that are important to me. I love that it also supports the future of the community by presenting a scholarship to a resident that meets the academic and community involvement standards. Those are just a few of the reasons.

So, I encourage you to stop by the Guyasuta Days Festival this week. There is something for everyone at the festival. Lots of good food, including the above mentioned fries and walking tacos but there is also chicken tenders, pierogies, funnel cakes and halushski for those of you who are fans of that (and you can probably tell how much I eat it because I can't spell it). There is a band every night. There are games and rides and bingo. Sometimes there massage people or you could buy penny candy from the library.

Check it out! It's a perfect summer evening activity!

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Cause I'm Happy!

I recently found this Happy Mix on Pinterest. What do you think? What would you add to your Happy Mix?

[Picture courtesy of Greatist.]

Some of my favorite songs are on this list but I would definitely add the following:

BEST DAY OF MY LIFE
American Authors

AIN'T NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH
Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell

GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN
Cyndi Lauper

DON'T STOP BELIEVIN'
Journey

I'M A BELIEVER
The Monkees

SAY HEY (I LOVE YOU)
Michael Franti and the Spearheads

BROWN EYED GIRL
Van Morrison

WE ARE YOUNG
Fun

WHERE EVERYBODY KNOWS YOUR NAME (Cheers Theme Song)
Gary Portnoy

TIME OF MY LIFE
Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes

Now, go listen to some happy music!!

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Getting in Shape...Again

A year ago almost exactly my fitness world was knocked completely out of the ballpark when my kneecap came out of place during a run. It was all down hill from there and I'm not getting into all of that again but needless to say I spent the last year not being very fitness minded. Granted, I did join a gym to workout, spin and swim when I wasn't in and out of physical therapy. After the surgery, I literally sat in the recliner for months. Needless to say my muscle mass is pitiful now except for my upper arms from two months of crutches. Physical therapy went until the end of June and so finally in July I could rethink my workouts and decide how I was going to get back in shape and stay in shape without running.

This is my plan, which I have to adapt weekly as to my schedule. I'm two weeks in and its going pretty well. What's nice is that I'm not going to the gym right now because its so nice outside but everything I'm doing can be moved inside when the weather gets colder.

Monday
I do my core workout on Monday. In a few weeks I will add some short cardio on as well and then later some short bursts of HIIT. For now, Monday is a day that if I need to miss a workout I can and just add it on to another day.

Tuesday
I do between 30-60 minutes of cardio and since I'm not running, I walk on Tuesdays. I've found the best calorie burn walking is to do hills. So if you are familiar with Pittsburgh and where we live, I walk Stanton from our apartment through Stanton Heights and down to Lawrenceville and back. It's only a little more than a four mile walk but it takes approximately an hour because the incline is so steep part of the way up from Lawrenceville and on the other side from Morningside/Highland Park.

Wednesday
I do an upper body workout on Wednesday focusing on my arms, shoulders and back. Eventually as with Monday, I will add light cardio and HIIT.

Thursday
Thursday is a repeat of Tuesday with cardio and the time amount. The only thing I change is that I bike (or try to) on Thursdays. Right now, I'm riding Dennis' bike since I don't have one but I'm not sure how long I can do that because it sucks. I might even go rent one of those ones that are all over the city.

Friday
I do a total body strength workout on Friday.

Saturday
Same as Tuesday and Thursday, although on Saturday I swim! My favorite cardio day! 


Sunday
Sunday is supposed to be a rest day but I think I'm going to start doing yoga again at the gym. I need to improve my flexibility again and hopefully it will help me relax.

I'm not perfect. So believe me, there is rarely a week that goes by  that I get some sort of a workout in everyday. Sometimes I do more than on on the weekends to make up for a lousy week. I'm happy with getting a workout in five days a week.

Alright, let me know if you want to work out sometime together!

Monday, August 3, 2015

Book Review: Pawley's Island

First, I'm so proud of myself that I have wrote 200 blog posts since I first started this blog three or four years ago. Granted I know they aren't the best posts! This is my own private celebration since I have all of four readers! Ha ha! 200 is a milestone for my boring little blog but I intend to hopefully freshen things up better design wise and plan posts in advance in the future. Happy 200th Post!

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A few weeks ago, my coworker took me to the book sale at her husband's library. It was fabulous and probably one of the best book sales I have ever been to recently. There was an excellent selection of trade paperbacks for popular authors, which I find myself reading so much more in the summer. I bought a bag of trade paperbacks that I could't wait to delve into. My summer reading list has pretty much gone by the wayside. Anyways, I picked up two Dorothea Benton Frank books since I had enjoyed Hurricane Sisters so much. I finished Pawley's Island yesterday and am reading Folly's Beach currently.


I wasn't quite sure what to expect with Pawley's Island but it was wonderful. It was such a distraction this weekend though and I struggled to work on my to-do list because all I wanted to do was read. My reward was that every time I crossed something off my to-do list I could read a chapter. I finished the book in two days. At the end I was disappointed, again I felt like I had lost some old friends because I felt so close to Abigail, Huey and Rebecca. Frank's books make me want to travel to Charleston and the Lowcountry now.

In the book, Abigail Thurmond retreats to her family house on Pawley's Island after the untimely deaths of her husband and son and following her departure from a successful law career. The story begins approximately three years later. Abigail spends her time playing golf and tennis, dwelling on the past and accompanying her best friend, Huey to all of the social events in the area. This lifestyle continues until the day that Huey hires a young artist named Rebecca to frame at his gallery. Through the inquisitive nature of Huey's mother, Miss Olivia, it is discovered that Rebecca has some troubles of her own. Her husband has filed custody of their two children, kicked her out of the house and is awaiting divorce proceedings for no apparent reason other than he states she is unfit mother.

Huey, Abigail and Miss Olivia will stop at nothing to find justice for their new friend and her children. The soon-to-be ex-husband, Nat, is part-owner in his family's successful car business, so he has money to make sure that he gets his way and that his wife is out of his and his children's lives forever. What Nat doesn't know is that Abigail is a former divorce lawyer with a number of tricks up her sleeve. What Abigail doesn't know is that this trial is exactly what she needs to realize that she is loved. Her ideal lifestyle tucked away on Pawley's might not have been as ideal when she believes and that she is capable of overcoming the death of her family with the help of her close friends and boyfriend and finding happiness again.

This book is an excellent summer read but unlike some this book has a well-thought out  plot and likable characters. I would recommend this book to anyone who has read the Hurricane Sisters. It's an older title, so I bet you could stop by your local library and pick it up today! 

Happy Reading!

Sunday, August 2, 2015

Sailing

As a professional writing major, I had to take courses in various styles of writing. Journalism, creative non-fiction, public relations and grant writing were my favorite. Creative writing not so much. I struggled with writing poems and short stories. The common theme across my creative writing assignments was usually sailing though.

Sailing was such an important part of my life during my teen and college years. This summer I've really been thinking about it a lot and wishing I had a boat or even just the time to sail more. 

I wrote this poem about sailing in my junior year creative writing class. It was published in the college literary journal. Takes me right about to that classroom but more importantly right back to that beautiful lake...

Sailing
The white, fiberglass boat propels slowly over the waves,
as the summer breeze softly luffs the sail.
The cool lake water splashes my bare arm.
I can see the islands in the distance,
Kelley's, Put-in-Bay and Mouse,
becoming closer as I delve in the vast expanses of Erie.
Powerboats speed by ignoring the the right-of-way rules,
creating powerful waives to propel my boat off course.
I turn the boat into the wind to take a break.
Laying on the bow of the boat,
I soak in the warm summer sunshine.
This is my escape from reality,
where I can just relax and ponder my thoughts.
No work, no school, no interruptions,
just the beautiful tranquility of the lake.


The poem was originally formatted to look like a sailboat.

Saturday, August 1, 2015

Book Review: The Little Paris Bookshop

The Little Paris Bookshop was one of those books that I struggled to start and finish but ultimately I was somewhat satisfied with the ending. I didn't dislike it enough to stop reading, so something kept me engaged enough to finish. Here's more of what I thought about The Little Paris Bookshop by Nina George.


I wanted to read this book because I had read in some magazine or library journal that fans of The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society would enjoy it. That got me excited tha I waited impatiently for weeks for it first to be released and then second to be available for check-out at the library. I have to say I was disappointed in that recommendation. I didn't really see any similarities other than the writing style and how the Potato Peel Society is written the majority in letters and this is made up somewhat of a diary. Here is my review from Potato Peel Society.

The Little Paris Bookshop is follows the journey of Jean Perdu, a literary apothecary, on a journey to heal himself not his customers after finding a letter from a lost love. I loved the idea of a literary apothecary serving French customers from a barge moored on the Seine; however, that ended up being one plot line almost intertwined with many others that ultimately would just be dropped as Perdu made progress on his quest to overcome losing the love of his life. The course of his journey includes another potential love, a young writer suffering from writer's block, an aspring chef, another surprise author and then the family of the lost love. Some just disappear from the story line and others remain present but it is long and sometimes confusing.

It was probably me more than the book and I would definitely recommend people read this book if only for the interesting topic of a literary apothecary and the book barge. At first when I started reading I thought it took place in an earlier time and was surprised when they started talking about cell phones and Harry Potter. Give it a try! It never hurts to read something and find out later you disliked it.You still read.

Happy Reading!

A Few Pins I'd Like to Actually Try

What is your relationship with Pinterest? Is it a love-hate relationship like mine? I love Pinterest but sometimes it can be quite overwhelming. There is too much there. Too many pins to try. Too many pins to make you feel inadequate about what you are already doing in life. Too many distractions. I'd like to say I do a lot of what I pin but who am I kidding - I don't have the time for that. Here are a few pins though that if time permits in the next few months I would definitely like to try.

Bike Wreath

(Photo courtesy of REI.)

I make a wreath every year anyways, so this pin shouldn't be too hard to accomplish. I just need to find a bike wheel. The instructions seem pretty simple. If anyone wants to learn to make a wreath, let me know! It is one domestic skill I have!

Mail Art


(Photo courtesy of The Realistic Mama.)

I'm one of the few people that still sends snail mail. I love sending it and admit it - who doesn't love receiving mail that isn't a bill, ad or junk. Everyone should be shaking their head yes! Now, I just to actually remember to do this when I send mail. I have three cards currently waiting to go out, so maybe I'll start there. This blog has some great suggestions to make mail prettier in the mailbox.

Layered Picture Frames


(Photo courtesy of Beneath My Heart.)

I doubt that I would do this for the apartment but fingers crossed if we ever get to move into a house I love this photo arrangement. I'd want to use my own artwork and black and white photos from places that Dennis and I have been together. 

There are so many more pins I want to try but I'm limited by time, money, space and tools. I remember what planning a wedding was like with Pinterest, now I'm obsessed with home decor and all I have is an apartment where I can't paint and am running out of space. Sigh...

Happy Pinning!