Sunday, December 13, 2015

Christmas DIY: Beer Cap Coasters

Do you ever find that you have multiple bottle caps in your beer area, especially after a picnic or holiday party? I keep them in a bowl in our bar area in the hopes that I will have enough if I every do one of those great Pinterest projects using beer caps or wine corks.

One of the ones I had pinned was beer cap coasters. I made them tonight for my sister's fiance. The coasters are incredibly easy. The only supplies you need are beer caps and a hot glue gun. You might also want to grab some cardboard to glue on.

Arrange the beer caps in an order that you like. Keep in mind that you will need 16. I guess you could do it with nine but I found it looked better with the larger number. With that being said though, I only made a set of two rather than hat I hoped would be four or six. 

Here's a picture of the coasters.


Happy Holidays!

Saturday, December 12, 2015

All I Want for Christmas...

What do you want for Christmas?

My top holiday wish every year is a trip; however, that isn't always realistic although I have gotten it twice before. There's always hoping.

This year, I'm hoping for...

- The new season of Blue Bloods on DVD
- A FitBit
- A label maker (nerd alert)

Of course, I'm always hoping for new books and clothes, since I never buy these items for myself.

Happy Holidays!

There's No Place Like Home for the Holidays


(New Year's Eve 2008, Cruise to the Bahamas)

For a person obsessed with travel, I want nothing else than to be on a plane to a warm destination, big city or a cozy winter retreat; however, I have to say that when it comes to traveling for the holidays I'm all for it but I want to be home on the actual holiday.

I've spent a few Thanksgivings away from home and that was fine because I was surrounded by family. At Thanksgiving, you start to notice the Christmas decorations going up. In a warmer climate, this was always a little weird to me. Santa in a bathing suit and on a surf board, fake snow everywhere and Christmas lights on palm trees. I loved it but I missed my crisp, cool Northern air; the smell of fresh fine; and Santa dressed traditionally.

So, although I'm always eager to travel - I like to go before or after. I would love to be leaving for a cruise again this year on the day after Christmas but that's not happening. I'll just have to wait for my next plane trip in the fall - Denver! Happy Holidays!


Saturday, October 3, 2015

Fall Bucket List

I got a new computer a few weeks ago, which I thought would help make writing blog posts easier. However, there are some little things that I'm still learning to do and for some reason adding pictures to blog posts has not happened yet, which explains my text-less posts.

I'm trying very hard to embrace fall. It's not easy. I'm a summer girl. I live for the sunshine and water. It doesn't help either that every year the minute Labor Day comes I welcome my first cold or sinus infection. We are month in and I'm already on my second one this year. Fall is off to a great start.

I didn't make a fall reading list this year because I'm trying to read through some of the stacks around my house. I'm so far behind on my reading for the year too. It's pathetic. I did make a fall bucket list. It makes me excited to know that the end of fall are the holidays, which of course is my favorite time next to summer!

FaLl BuCkEt LiSt

- Have a fire.
- Pick apples.
- Buy a cinnamon candle.
- Bug leggings.
- Buy school supplies.
- Have a scary movie date.
- Watch Hocus Pocus.
- Drink apple cider.
- Make an apple pie.
- Take a morning walk.
- Watch ABC Family 13 Nights of Halloween.
- Go to a haunted house.
- Make a crockpot soup.
- Host a chili cook-off.
- Get new fall clothes.
- Have a fall Pinterest party.
- Watch football.
- Visit a pumpkin patch.
- Go on a picnic.
- Play disc golf.
- Go to a fall festival.
- Play football.
- Geocache.
- Go for a bike ride.
- Play a board game.
- Take pictures.
- Watch The Great Pumpkin.
- Celebrate gratitude month.

So regretfully I say, Happy Fall!

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Fall at Lakeside

As I grow older I learn to appreciate Lakeside more and more during every season not just summer when there are weekends where you can't find a spot on the dock, there is a line for a table at the patio and golf carts and bikes are parked and strewn wherever one can find space.

We just returned from a relaxing and peaceful three days at Lakeside. When I was in grad school, I spent the majority of my weekends at Lakeside in the fall. It was gorgeous with the warm fall sunshine, changing leaves and crisp breeze off the lake. It was quiet too. The perfect place to sit back and relax with a book after a long week of classes.

I needed a respite this week. I've been sick with sinus issues and colds for the last few weeks. Run down I guess you could say and Lakeside was just the remedy. There was a golf cart rides on roads of sleepy cottages, walks on the dock with the wind whipping off the lake and lunches at some of my favorite summer haunts.

Had it not rained on Tuesday and the wind been so strong on Wednesday, not to mention my nasty cold, I would have been in the lake swimming, playing miniature golf and maybe even fishing. I did manage a few holes of disc golf and a trip to Mon Ami to stock up on wine for the winter. Yet even those simple adventures rejuvenated my spirit and had me feeling better upon returning home.

Although I miss Lakeside and will soon start counting the days until next summer, I'm so thankful to have all year long even if it is cold or quiet. It's being there that helps. So, it's not good bye, it's see ya later Lakeside. Until November.. 

Saturday, September 26, 2015

Book Review: Sarah's Key

I had been waiting to read Sarah's Key forever. I'm not sure what kept me from reading. Perhaps the popularity of the book at first and its unavailability at the library. Or perhaps I expected book club to read it since it had been recommended as a great discussion piece; however, we ended up making a rule about take a year off from Holocaust books. Therefore, when I saw it at a book sale I grabbed it. I read it last weekend in two days. I didn't want to put it down.

Sarah's Key is one of the book that is essentially two stories that eventually weave together and become one. The present day story revolves around Julia, an ex-patriot and journalist, assigned a piece about the 60th anniversary of the Vel' d' Hiv, a roundup of French Jews in 1942. The other story revolves around Sarah, a ten-year-old girl who lives one fateful night in the summer of 1942 with her mother and eventually father under the impression that she will be returning shortly to the family's apartment since she has locked her little brother in the cupboard.

The key to the cupboard with the little boy keeps Sarah fighting for freedom and eventually links her story with Julia's. As with many of these Holocaust books, there is immense sorrow but there is joy as well and through Julia, both her family and Julia's find some peace. There are many surprises, which I don't want to give away, so read Sarah's Key. You will learn something new too!

Happy Reading!

Friday, September 25, 2015

Book Review: Then Came You

When I was in college, I read all of Jennifer Weiner's books and absolutely loved them. I still have some of those old ones in my personal collection. I haven't read as many of her newer ones. For no particular reason - there are so many books I want to read, found other authors, she is more popular and her books aren't always in at the library. However, I managed to find one at the book sale this summer. It was one that I had already tried once to listen to unsuccessfully. Last weekend I finally finished Then Came You.

This book was one of the ones that I did struggle to get into. Then through the middle I really disliked some of the characters and was thinking I'm really going to hate this book. But then she wraps it up well even those its not a total happy ending. Not one of my favorites of hers but it was still a great read that I would recommend to anyone who has enjoyed Weiner's other books.

Then Came You is written from the perspective of four different women. Jules is a college senior at Princeton when the book begins who will do anything to help her addict father, even sell her eggs. Annie is a housewife determined to make a better life for her young family, even becoming a surrogate. India is recently married to a wealthy New York businessman who has spent the better part of her life striving to be what she is not. And Bettina is the daughter of the wealthy businessman who thinks her new stepmother did not marry her father for love but money and having a baby with him is her way of securing the deal.

That baby brings all four women together with the help of Jules and Annie. Ultimately, all four women end up becoming a much more involved in the baby's life other than the anticipated anonymous egg donor and one-time surrogate. The path of each one leading up to the baby's birth is anything but simple. Read Then Came You to find out what happens for Jules, Annie, India and Bettina and the baby that each of these women love so much.

Happy Reading!

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Throwback Reads to Summer Camp Summers

I love summer books. I love friends books. And this summer I discovered I love books about summer camp and that there are quite a few young adult books with that theme, so I decided to read a few before Labor Day. I probably love them so much because of my fond memories of my camp days. The only difference is that I didn't spend the entire summer there even half the summer but a week to my dismay and I also went with people I know, which was great but I would have loved to have camp best friends like the girls in some of these books.

So, here are two reviews of some summer camp titles. I was hoping it would be three but the third one wasn't that great and after 60 pages I decided to stop. Enjoy!


Five Summers
I loved this book and wanted to sign myself up for summer camp there, especially because half of the book is reunion weekend, so there are adults at camp as well. The story is about Jo, Skylar, Emma and Maddie. Four girls that met at Camp Nebodoba as ten-year-olds and return together for the next five summers. Each year brings new and old traditions, including making a pact and rules for the four best friends. After the final summer, they all agree to return as camp counselors but only two do for reasons that readers find out as the story progresses. After a few years of little to no communication, the girls return for their first reunion weekend. Each has their own expecations of how the weekend will go and secrets they are not ready to share but all four girls have the same goal of rekindling their once inseparable friendship. Five Summers is a great young adult book that truly emphasizes how important friendship is, how hard it can be and how true friends overcome to remain friends.


Proof of Forever
Well, I thought I loved Five Summers but this one was 10x better! Again, the story is about four girls coming back for a reunion but this one has an element of time travel. When the time travel happened, my thought was I'm out. I don't do science fiction/fantasy; however, it was almost just like a sentence, a what if not a whole chapter about time travel. Luce, Joy, Zoe and Tali have grown apart and the summer before freshmen year of college they decide to reunite at the summer camp reunion. Each has a different reason for returning to the reunion and obviously after two years of not seeing each other or talking to each other after the fall out there is some tension. Each one is thinking about a second chance at rebuilding their friendship and after a trip to the photo booth transports them back the last week of camp two summers ago they just might get that. There are surprises throughout after the time travel and the girls ultimately think if they replay it exactly as is they will get back safely. But naturally things do not go as planned and in the long run it might be better that way. Read this book to relive some of your summer camp memories and I guarantee you will laugh, cry and remember how wonderful those summers were.

Happy Reading!

Saturday, August 15, 2015

More than Halfways through the Year...Goal Progress

What a year so far? I honestly, as with every year, had such high hopes for 2015. When I wrote my goal post I don't think I had any idea what I was in for in the coming months no matter how manageable my goals might have been. Little did I know that two and a half months in I would end up having surgery that pretty much affected my life until the end of June. So, with that being said, I haven't made much progress with my 2015 goals.

What I wanted to accomplish and hopefully still can:

Do a weekly RANDOM ACT OF KINDNESS.
I wouldn't say every week but I'm working on it.

Get back in shape with LOW IMPACT EXERCISE
Well, I would say since I finally have been released from PT and am back on a workout schedule that I am getting back in shape. I really couldn't make any headway with this goal until after June.

READ.
I started off the year so well and then when I had my surgery I would fall asleep every time I read, so now I'm super behind on my reading goals.

SIMPLIFY.

TRAVEL.
We went to Williamsburg and hopefully NYC in the fall but that's it. We need to save money for a house.

BLOG.
Let's say I didn't really work on this until the beginning of the month. Hopefully, I have made it a habit.

ORGANIZE the apartment.
Working on it...

Save money and BUY A HOUSE.
In the pre-approval process!!

Be HEALTHY.

Spend more time with FRIENDS and FAMILY.

Let's just say I have a lot of work to do still but I'm making progress now that I'm up and moving around!

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Mouse Island


Again, with the steady breeze and beautiful sunshine I'm longing to go sailing. I found this short story I wrote in my creative writing class at La Roche. Again, about sailing, which most of my creative pieces seemed to be. This piece might be loosely based on a true story.

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The day began as a beautiful, cool morning with a steady breeze blowing from the Northwest.  The shore was filled with men, women and young adults preparing their sailboats for one of the most important races of the summer, the Mouse Island Race.  Earlier that week, the advanced sailing class had decided that eight of them would sail double-handed in the race.  The girls filled three boats and the boys were in another.  The boys bragged that the two of them would smoke the girls and would return first.  The two, trying to be funny, wore sombreros on the boat.

As the large group of sailors prepared for the race, the announcer began to recite the rules.  The actual race consisted of a four-mile sail to the island, sailing around the island, and a four-mile return trip.  Paddling and collisions with other boats were prohibited.  The single-handed Sunfish began the race.  Five minutes after the first round of boats had started, the double-handed sailors shoved off.  The sailors were expected to remain in the water and not in the boats until the whistle blew, making the start extremely difficult.

From the group of students from the advanced sailing class, there were two sisters, Leigha and Rosie.  The eldest of the two, Leigha, was the captain and the younger, Rosie, the crew.  This was not the first race the two had sailed and they were confident that this race would be an easy straight shot to and from the island.  The previous summer, they had sailed double-handed in their first regatta.  They had come in last, but all the experienced sailors had congratulated them and encouraged them that it was excellent practice for future races.  Leigha and Rosie had been taking sailing lessons for years now and had been practicing in the afternoons following their lesson.  Their sailing skills had progressed over the years even though they only sailed two weeks each summer while on vacation.
As the double-handed group left the confines of the harbor, the two sisters were clearly in the lead.  The two were ecstatic they were actually winning.  There was good-natured joking between the boys and the girls but before long they were too far away from each other to carry on an audible conversation.

The group was headed straight for the island, but after an hour or two the Sunfish all began to tack since the wind had shifted.  As the tacking progressed, the sisters fell back and pretty soon were one of the last boats.  By this time, the other three boats from the sailing class had given up and returned to shore.  Leigha and Rosie were determined not to quit and they were firm in their decision to finish the race, even if they were last.  The tacking continued until the island was clearly visible.

The two sisters discussed their methods of tacking the sail around the island.  There were many obstacles to overcome before the return trip.  The other side of the island was right in the path of a ferryboat traveling to another island.  The wake from this large boat was enough to turtle a small craft.  The waters around the island were extremely shallow and would be very challenging to navigate without paddling or getting out of the boat. 

Unfortunately, the determined sisters would not have to combat any of these obstacles to overcome before the return trip.  Leigha and Rosie decided that after sitting for a while, that they would return home and forfeit the race.  The decision was a difficult one, because they had come so far only to be rejected of the satisfaction of completing the most important part of the race.  The task of returning home was easier said then done.

The return trip was much longer than expected.  Normally, the return trip would be somewhat faster due to the wind being directly behind the boat causing the boat to run.  On that morning though, all the wind could do was cause the sail to luff.  The five to fifteen knot winds that had begun the race and prompted the sisters into the lead were now gone and the two floated the four miles back to shore.  Less than a mile from the shore, the two completely gave up.  The boat was not moving, and they were drifting in the wrong direction rather than towards shore.  

The captain, Leigha, figured she had already lost her chance at winning this race and they were already disqualified; why not paddle.  She began to paddle not caring what the people in charge were thinking.  As the boat inched closer to shore, the wind picked up enough to sail through the harbor onto shore.

The remaining onlookers cheered and clapped as the two slid out of the boat and began to de-rig the boat.  The two than solemnly explained that the wind had died and they never really made it around the island.  The announcer still congratulated them and told them it was a hard race.  The race was for experienced sailors and they had done their best.  The two were proud of themselves anyway; they still had much improvement before winning a race but the sisters had beat the rest of their class and had done what they were capable of doing.  Mouse Island was now just another race added to their repertoire, a race that taken five hours.  On began as winners and ended as semi-experienced sailors.

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Goodbye Summer, Hello Fall!

I'm a summer girl. I pretty much hate when its less than 80 degrees out and the sun isn't shining. And I won't lie, it depresses me an awful lot come fall when the weather starts I getting cooler. It's already too cold out for me. I thrive on humidity. There are some things that excite me about fall and I've been thinking about it more and more since everyone seems to be posting about pumpkin ales and coffees. I can't say I like either of those but here are some things I'm looking forward to:

Fall Road Trips
Fall is my busy time at work for travel, so I'll be heading to Penn State once and Hershey twice for conferences and meetings. Of course there will also be a trip or two to Lakeside, which I love just as much in the shoulder seasons and we are still planning our "big" trip in November.

Football
I'm so excited to start watching football games again and reading about the Raiders kicking everyone's butts! I'm ready for some Packers games too. Oh yeah, and Steeler games too, which we are hoping to go to a Thursday night game in September.

Friendsgiving
Not gonna lie, I'm probably looking forward to this the most. What could be better than friends, food and football in the park? And this year, I'm not injured so maybe my football game will be better!

Fires
Would you believe that we haven't had one fire the entire summer? Well, I guess we kind of had one at the very beginning of June. The beginning of summer was too wet, then it was too warm and we were really busy. Tonight would have been good for that.

Of course, I'll hike and play golf and maybe some tennis but fall really isn't my season. These will get me through to the holiday season but I'm already mourning the end of summer.

Goodbye summer! I know you aren't over yet but I miss you already!

Monday, August 10, 2015

Book Review: The Wednesday Sisters

The Wednesday Sisters was another title I picked up at that recent book sale. I had never even heard of it before and really had no idea what to expect. Well, I was pleasantly surprised. It was wonderful and one that might be a keeper and one that I reread again another summer.


There were so many reasons why I loved this book. It was about a group of friends. It was about a group that talked about reading and later writing. It followed the space program and other big events in history. It wasn't the first book I read about the 1960s/1970s but the one thing I really didn't like was how women were treated as only a wife and mother. I knew this but for some reason this book was much more honest about it.

The Wednesday Sisters reminded me a lot of Angry Housewives Eating Bon-Bons. The book is about five women - Allie, Frankie, Linda, Kath and Brett - who meet at the playground while their children play the morning Robert F. Kennedy is shot and realize they have a common interest in literature and writing. Together, they embark on a writing journal. First, by writing together for an hour each Wednesday morning and then critiquing each others work during the week and bringing it back to discuss. The writing helps the women is more ways then they can imagine.

The book takes place over the course of five years. The women go from strangers in the park to best friends. Each woman has to overcome their own trials - infertility, breast cancer, infidelity and insecurity - but with the help of the Wednesday Sisters they each survive stronger. The friendship starts with a common interest in the Miss American Pageant but as the women age and realize what is going on in the world see the pageant for more than ball gowns and swimsuits, more than a beauty pageant. And they see themselves as more than wives and mothers.

It took everything I had to do anything but read this weekend. I definitely cheated on my to-do list yesterday, so that I could finish the book. I was a bit disappointed in the ending but other than that this was a great book. If you liked Angry Housewives, you'll love this one. Check it out!

Happy Reading!

Saturday, August 8, 2015

Summer Fun: Guyasuta Days Festival

Looking for something to do this week/weekend, why not come to Kennedy Park in Sharpsburg for the Guyasuta Days Festival?

I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a fair or festival person. I don't play bingo. I don't play carnival games. I don't do raffles. I don't ride carnival rides, except I did do the slide one year. I don't really eat fair food with the exception of a walking taco or cheese fries. I guess you could just say I'm cheap and boring. Dennis would say I'm cheap. Yet, I've been roped into the Guyasuta Days Festival and I enjoy it. Why you might ask?

Well, aside from the delicious walking taco made by the festival commitee and cheese fries from the fire department, I love the people watching. It relaxes me to just sit and watch from the sidelines everyone enjoying themselves. I love the camaraderie of the event - everyone coming together in a show of community - churches, civic and community organizations all working together. I love that it benefits multiple community organizations - fire department and library are just two that are important to me. I love that it also supports the future of the community by presenting a scholarship to a resident that meets the academic and community involvement standards. Those are just a few of the reasons.

So, I encourage you to stop by the Guyasuta Days Festival this week. There is something for everyone at the festival. Lots of good food, including the above mentioned fries and walking tacos but there is also chicken tenders, pierogies, funnel cakes and halushski for those of you who are fans of that (and you can probably tell how much I eat it because I can't spell it). There is a band every night. There are games and rides and bingo. Sometimes there massage people or you could buy penny candy from the library.

Check it out! It's a perfect summer evening activity!

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Cause I'm Happy!

I recently found this Happy Mix on Pinterest. What do you think? What would you add to your Happy Mix?

[Picture courtesy of Greatist.]

Some of my favorite songs are on this list but I would definitely add the following:

BEST DAY OF MY LIFE
American Authors

AIN'T NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH
Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell

GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN
Cyndi Lauper

DON'T STOP BELIEVIN'
Journey

I'M A BELIEVER
The Monkees

SAY HEY (I LOVE YOU)
Michael Franti and the Spearheads

BROWN EYED GIRL
Van Morrison

WE ARE YOUNG
Fun

WHERE EVERYBODY KNOWS YOUR NAME (Cheers Theme Song)
Gary Portnoy

TIME OF MY LIFE
Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes

Now, go listen to some happy music!!

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Getting in Shape...Again

A year ago almost exactly my fitness world was knocked completely out of the ballpark when my kneecap came out of place during a run. It was all down hill from there and I'm not getting into all of that again but needless to say I spent the last year not being very fitness minded. Granted, I did join a gym to workout, spin and swim when I wasn't in and out of physical therapy. After the surgery, I literally sat in the recliner for months. Needless to say my muscle mass is pitiful now except for my upper arms from two months of crutches. Physical therapy went until the end of June and so finally in July I could rethink my workouts and decide how I was going to get back in shape and stay in shape without running.

This is my plan, which I have to adapt weekly as to my schedule. I'm two weeks in and its going pretty well. What's nice is that I'm not going to the gym right now because its so nice outside but everything I'm doing can be moved inside when the weather gets colder.

Monday
I do my core workout on Monday. In a few weeks I will add some short cardio on as well and then later some short bursts of HIIT. For now, Monday is a day that if I need to miss a workout I can and just add it on to another day.

Tuesday
I do between 30-60 minutes of cardio and since I'm not running, I walk on Tuesdays. I've found the best calorie burn walking is to do hills. So if you are familiar with Pittsburgh and where we live, I walk Stanton from our apartment through Stanton Heights and down to Lawrenceville and back. It's only a little more than a four mile walk but it takes approximately an hour because the incline is so steep part of the way up from Lawrenceville and on the other side from Morningside/Highland Park.

Wednesday
I do an upper body workout on Wednesday focusing on my arms, shoulders and back. Eventually as with Monday, I will add light cardio and HIIT.

Thursday
Thursday is a repeat of Tuesday with cardio and the time amount. The only thing I change is that I bike (or try to) on Thursdays. Right now, I'm riding Dennis' bike since I don't have one but I'm not sure how long I can do that because it sucks. I might even go rent one of those ones that are all over the city.

Friday
I do a total body strength workout on Friday.

Saturday
Same as Tuesday and Thursday, although on Saturday I swim! My favorite cardio day! 


Sunday
Sunday is supposed to be a rest day but I think I'm going to start doing yoga again at the gym. I need to improve my flexibility again and hopefully it will help me relax.

I'm not perfect. So believe me, there is rarely a week that goes by  that I get some sort of a workout in everyday. Sometimes I do more than on on the weekends to make up for a lousy week. I'm happy with getting a workout in five days a week.

Alright, let me know if you want to work out sometime together!

Monday, August 3, 2015

Book Review: Pawley's Island

First, I'm so proud of myself that I have wrote 200 blog posts since I first started this blog three or four years ago. Granted I know they aren't the best posts! This is my own private celebration since I have all of four readers! Ha ha! 200 is a milestone for my boring little blog but I intend to hopefully freshen things up better design wise and plan posts in advance in the future. Happy 200th Post!

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A few weeks ago, my coworker took me to the book sale at her husband's library. It was fabulous and probably one of the best book sales I have ever been to recently. There was an excellent selection of trade paperbacks for popular authors, which I find myself reading so much more in the summer. I bought a bag of trade paperbacks that I could't wait to delve into. My summer reading list has pretty much gone by the wayside. Anyways, I picked up two Dorothea Benton Frank books since I had enjoyed Hurricane Sisters so much. I finished Pawley's Island yesterday and am reading Folly's Beach currently.


I wasn't quite sure what to expect with Pawley's Island but it was wonderful. It was such a distraction this weekend though and I struggled to work on my to-do list because all I wanted to do was read. My reward was that every time I crossed something off my to-do list I could read a chapter. I finished the book in two days. At the end I was disappointed, again I felt like I had lost some old friends because I felt so close to Abigail, Huey and Rebecca. Frank's books make me want to travel to Charleston and the Lowcountry now.

In the book, Abigail Thurmond retreats to her family house on Pawley's Island after the untimely deaths of her husband and son and following her departure from a successful law career. The story begins approximately three years later. Abigail spends her time playing golf and tennis, dwelling on the past and accompanying her best friend, Huey to all of the social events in the area. This lifestyle continues until the day that Huey hires a young artist named Rebecca to frame at his gallery. Through the inquisitive nature of Huey's mother, Miss Olivia, it is discovered that Rebecca has some troubles of her own. Her husband has filed custody of their two children, kicked her out of the house and is awaiting divorce proceedings for no apparent reason other than he states she is unfit mother.

Huey, Abigail and Miss Olivia will stop at nothing to find justice for their new friend and her children. The soon-to-be ex-husband, Nat, is part-owner in his family's successful car business, so he has money to make sure that he gets his way and that his wife is out of his and his children's lives forever. What Nat doesn't know is that Abigail is a former divorce lawyer with a number of tricks up her sleeve. What Abigail doesn't know is that this trial is exactly what she needs to realize that she is loved. Her ideal lifestyle tucked away on Pawley's might not have been as ideal when she believes and that she is capable of overcoming the death of her family with the help of her close friends and boyfriend and finding happiness again.

This book is an excellent summer read but unlike some this book has a well-thought out  plot and likable characters. I would recommend this book to anyone who has read the Hurricane Sisters. It's an older title, so I bet you could stop by your local library and pick it up today! 

Happy Reading!

Sunday, August 2, 2015

Sailing

As a professional writing major, I had to take courses in various styles of writing. Journalism, creative non-fiction, public relations and grant writing were my favorite. Creative writing not so much. I struggled with writing poems and short stories. The common theme across my creative writing assignments was usually sailing though.

Sailing was such an important part of my life during my teen and college years. This summer I've really been thinking about it a lot and wishing I had a boat or even just the time to sail more. 

I wrote this poem about sailing in my junior year creative writing class. It was published in the college literary journal. Takes me right about to that classroom but more importantly right back to that beautiful lake...

Sailing
The white, fiberglass boat propels slowly over the waves,
as the summer breeze softly luffs the sail.
The cool lake water splashes my bare arm.
I can see the islands in the distance,
Kelley's, Put-in-Bay and Mouse,
becoming closer as I delve in the vast expanses of Erie.
Powerboats speed by ignoring the the right-of-way rules,
creating powerful waives to propel my boat off course.
I turn the boat into the wind to take a break.
Laying on the bow of the boat,
I soak in the warm summer sunshine.
This is my escape from reality,
where I can just relax and ponder my thoughts.
No work, no school, no interruptions,
just the beautiful tranquility of the lake.


The poem was originally formatted to look like a sailboat.

Saturday, August 1, 2015

Book Review: The Little Paris Bookshop

The Little Paris Bookshop was one of those books that I struggled to start and finish but ultimately I was somewhat satisfied with the ending. I didn't dislike it enough to stop reading, so something kept me engaged enough to finish. Here's more of what I thought about The Little Paris Bookshop by Nina George.


I wanted to read this book because I had read in some magazine or library journal that fans of The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society would enjoy it. That got me excited tha I waited impatiently for weeks for it first to be released and then second to be available for check-out at the library. I have to say I was disappointed in that recommendation. I didn't really see any similarities other than the writing style and how the Potato Peel Society is written the majority in letters and this is made up somewhat of a diary. Here is my review from Potato Peel Society.

The Little Paris Bookshop is follows the journey of Jean Perdu, a literary apothecary, on a journey to heal himself not his customers after finding a letter from a lost love. I loved the idea of a literary apothecary serving French customers from a barge moored on the Seine; however, that ended up being one plot line almost intertwined with many others that ultimately would just be dropped as Perdu made progress on his quest to overcome losing the love of his life. The course of his journey includes another potential love, a young writer suffering from writer's block, an aspring chef, another surprise author and then the family of the lost love. Some just disappear from the story line and others remain present but it is long and sometimes confusing.

It was probably me more than the book and I would definitely recommend people read this book if only for the interesting topic of a literary apothecary and the book barge. At first when I started reading I thought it took place in an earlier time and was surprised when they started talking about cell phones and Harry Potter. Give it a try! It never hurts to read something and find out later you disliked it.You still read.

Happy Reading!

A Few Pins I'd Like to Actually Try

What is your relationship with Pinterest? Is it a love-hate relationship like mine? I love Pinterest but sometimes it can be quite overwhelming. There is too much there. Too many pins to try. Too many pins to make you feel inadequate about what you are already doing in life. Too many distractions. I'd like to say I do a lot of what I pin but who am I kidding - I don't have the time for that. Here are a few pins though that if time permits in the next few months I would definitely like to try.

Bike Wreath

(Photo courtesy of REI.)

I make a wreath every year anyways, so this pin shouldn't be too hard to accomplish. I just need to find a bike wheel. The instructions seem pretty simple. If anyone wants to learn to make a wreath, let me know! It is one domestic skill I have!

Mail Art


(Photo courtesy of The Realistic Mama.)

I'm one of the few people that still sends snail mail. I love sending it and admit it - who doesn't love receiving mail that isn't a bill, ad or junk. Everyone should be shaking their head yes! Now, I just to actually remember to do this when I send mail. I have three cards currently waiting to go out, so maybe I'll start there. This blog has some great suggestions to make mail prettier in the mailbox.

Layered Picture Frames


(Photo courtesy of Beneath My Heart.)

I doubt that I would do this for the apartment but fingers crossed if we ever get to move into a house I love this photo arrangement. I'd want to use my own artwork and black and white photos from places that Dennis and I have been together. 

There are so many more pins I want to try but I'm limited by time, money, space and tools. I remember what planning a wedding was like with Pinterest, now I'm obsessed with home decor and all I have is an apartment where I can't paint and am running out of space. Sigh...

Happy Pinning!

Friday, July 31, 2015

Summer Bucket List: Progress?

Summer is not even close to being over but it is the end of July and I want to make sure I get everything in on my summer bucket list for my epic summer. It's been a great summer so far, but I definitely haven't done as much as I had expected considering I ended up being a lot more busy with meetings, trips and life.

Well, here's what I have done so far this summer.

** Host parties in the backyard. **
Silly me thought I would have time to have people over once a week! Was I crazy! Must have been on all those painkillers I was hyped up on. Needless to say I have managed two parties - basically one per month. I'm not thinking any more parties this summer but maybe just having a few people over here and there to enjoy the summer evenings in the backyard.

** Spend time with family and friends. **
Amanda was here in June and we had such a wonderful time even if we didn't get to play tennis. My friend Courtney got married, so it was awesome seeing her family and of course two Lakeside trips to see friends and new babies!


** Go on vacation.**
Williamsburg was fabulous and so was the boat show weekend at Lakeside. The June week not so much. Talk about a hurricane on the lake. Needless to say my vacations are done for the summer and I'm a little sad.

And lots of other adventures:
In August, I still want to try some new restaurants, make ice cream and go to the drive-in. Oh yeah, and definitely work on my failing golf game!


Happy August! Let's get together if we haven't already and enjoy the beautiful weather finally!






Thursday, July 30, 2015

These are a Few of My Favorite Things: Office Supplies

So, a great follow-up to my post about my planner is my favorite office supplies. My coworkers always get me office supplies for gifts. This time of  year, I want to just head to the back-to-school section at Target and buy everything! I'm like Meg Ryan's character on You've Got Mail when she talks about sending a bouquet of freshly sharpened pencils. If you find yourself needing to spruce up your desk or home office space, then maybe these are some items you should stock up on.

Post-Its
Who doesn't use Post-Its? My Post-It supply at home is a little out of hand right now. I might have gone overboard in college or grad school buying Post-Its and now I have a box. I use them for everything from bookmarks to notes on gifts, so not just office supplies.

[Photo courtesy of Flickr.]

Colored Sharpies - Ultra Fine Point
These are my absolute favorite! I just happened to catch a deal last year at Staples and scored the entire set. Then my coworker gave me a set for Christmas, so now I have some at home and work. I color code my to-list at work because my job is grant funded and I need to know how much time I'm spending on each aspect of my position. That worked so well I started doing it at home as well.

[Photo courtesy of Flickr.]

Colored Sharpies - Fine Point
I have a full set of the traditional Sharpie markers too. I love them but I don't use the bigger ones too often. The ink bleeds and I write so big that it just doesn't work out. I use them a lot at work for mailings and items to be delivered to the libraries.

[Photo courtesy of Flickr.]

Highlighters
Highlighters are great for items that didn't get completed on the to-do list. My favorite highlighter is one I got free at a conference. It has five different points/colors. It's almost running out. It's like a highlighter you would have used in middle school.

[Photo courtesy of Flickr.]

My desk at work is full of pencils and notebooks and fun paper clips but they don't get used nearly as much as the above items. If you need one new thing to spruce up your work life, get Sharpies! Best investment ever!

Go shopping and get organized now!

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

An Organized Life: My New Planner

Yes, I'm a total nerd when it comes to my planner. I don't actually remember a time being without one starting in high school. For the beginning of the year, I was making my own, so that it provided everything I needed. The binding wasn't great though. I've had my heart set on an Erin Condren or Plum Paper planner forever but just couldn't bring myself to pay those costs. So, when we were in Williamsburg Dennis bought me a Lilly Pulitzer planner for one of my birthday presents. It's amazing!

It's Lilly Pulitzer. Did I mention that? I'm just a little excited still. There were so many to choose from. I went back three times before I actually made a decision. I got the biggest one since I have so much to plan and I write so big. It has sailboats on the cover, so of course it was love at first sight. There are calendars and daily sheets for 18 months. Plus pages to plan trips, list important dates and contacts and lots of note pages. Plus it has Lilly artwork the entire way through and there is a great folder and stickers at the beginning. It's so beautiful. I love to just look at it. Ha ha!



Here's a little peak inside my planner and how it is organized. I'll be the first to admit that I'm a little obsessed with my planners but it works.

Calendar Spread:
I color code my events. On the calendar it's pretty simple, navy for Dennis, lime green for me and pink for date night. My calendar is pretty straightforward. I don't really do anything crazy on the calendar.

Daily Spread:
Then I have my daily pages, which are also color coded.These have more than just the three on the calendar because there are colors for organization, financial, cleaning, etc. 

Daily and Weekly To-Do Lists:
I also have lists in the columns for items I'd like to do every day. These have codes because I write too big to fit it all in. These include drinking water, writing a blog post, exercising, stretching, etc. 

Then the weekly to-dos are on the opposite page and are items that I typically do once a week, including making a grocery list, checking the budget, updating the calendar, etc.

Post-It Notes:
Finally, I use post-its to mark my blog post ideas and daily cleaning tasks. That way I can move the blog post idea if I end up not using it. The cleaning tasks then get moved to the next Monday after I complete them. Eventually I will do this with my exercise routine as well but for now I have a chart that I keep in the folder.

That's my crazy life organized!


Monday, July 27, 2015

Merry Christmas in July!

We all know how Christmas obsessed I am, so it is no surprise that when I saw that Christmas in July was on a Saturday that I needed to have a party. I came to the conclusion a bit late though and being out of town three times in the last few weeks meant that it was a hastily thrown together party. Christmas in July is often overlooked and I have such fabulous memories of celebrating as a kid at Lakeside when they had a live nativity the one summer and then later when I worked there going to Put-In-Bay for the evening. I wanted to have more Christmas in July memories, so party was scheduled and guests were invited!

Of course when it came to food and drink, my first thought was that we have to have Jingle Juice. I love Jingle Juice. In addition, some of the other festive food included a veggie tree and peppermint s'mores. Had more people come, I would have made more, including mistletoe jello shots and cut out cookies. There was also pepperoni rolls, buffalo chicken dip and Rita's. Oh and shredded chicken sandwiches that I kind of bombed! Christmas in July is tricky because you want to have themed food but if you think about it do you really want to be in a hot kitchen with crock pots and the oven going or spending hours making sugar cookies? Yeah, I didn't want to be doing that because I wanted to spend as much time that afternoon as possible at the swimming pool.

Decorating was much easier than I had expected considering that some of my Christmas decorations were readily available in the office turned storage space. I grabbed a small tree for the deck and the Charlie Brown tree for the kitchen. Of course there is always the famous Elf poster and than a canvas painting that my sister made for more decor . We already have Christmas lights on the deck, so that worked perfect and I had some holiday plates and napkins from a gift to use. I didn't want too much, so I think it worked out well.

I put on the invitation that there would be a White Elephant exchange but I didn't do that great of job reminding people, so it was a small one. We also had a snowball fight (water balloons) at midnight, which was awesome since it was still like 80 degrees and consisted more of us throwing balloons at the garage. I had also planned on showing Elf in the backyard but people were in and out and seemed content just hanging out and talking.

All in all it was a nice relaxing evening! Merry Christmas!


Thursday, July 23, 2015

My Favorite Books A-Z (Part 2)

And here my friends is the rest of my favorite books list! I warned you that there were multiples! Hope you found one to take on your next vacation or trip to the pool!

N

Nantucket Blue and Nantucket Red - Leila Howland (Teen, Beach Read)
Check out my blog posts about these titles here.



O

Orphan Train - Christina Baker Kline (Historical Fiction, Book Club)

Out of my Mind (Teen, Book Club)



P

The Pregnancy Project - Gaby Rodriguez (Teen, Memoir, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Other: Palisades Park - Alan Brennert (Historical Fiction); Prep - Curtis Sittenfeld (Fiction)



Q

I got nothing. Sorry.

R

Rules of the Road - Joan Bauer (Teen)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Other: Red Kayak (Teen, Book Club); Reflections: Life After the White House (Memoir); The Ride of Our Lives: Roadside Lessons of An American Family (Memoir); Rose: The Life and Times of Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy (Biography)



S

The Starboard Sea - Amber Dermont (Fiction)
Check out my blog post here.

A Star for Mrs. Blake - April Smith (Historical Fiction, Book Club)
Check out my blog post here.

The Summer I Turned Pretty - Jenny Han (Teen, Beach Read)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Others: Same Sweet Girls (Fiction); Second Chance Summer (Teen, Beach Read); The Secret Hum of a Daisy (Tween); Secret Lives of the First Ladies: What Your Teachers Never Told You About the Women of the White House (History); The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants (Teen, Beach Read); Skipping Christmas (Fiction, Holiday); Spoken from the Heart (Memoir); Storm Runners (Tween); Summer at Tiffany (Memoir); Summer People (Fiction, Beach Read); Summer Sisters (Fiction, Beach Read); Sweet Caroline: Last Child of Camelot (Biography)




T

Three Rivers Rising: A Novel of the Johnstown Flood - Jame Richards (Teen, Historical Fiction)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Others: To Kill A Mockingbird (Fiction, Classic); The Tragedy Paper (Teen); Tuesdays of Morrie (Memoir)




U

No favorites here either. Sorry!



V

I couldn't think of any that I have even read with a V title.

W

We Shook the Family Tree - Hildegarde Dolson (Memoir)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Wild - Cheryl Strayed (Memoir)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Wonder - R.J. Palacio (Tween, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Others: What Jackie Taught Us (Biography), What Would Jackie Do (Biography, Self-Help), Where'd You Go Bernadette (Fiction, Book Club)



X

Obviously I don't read enough of these odd letters...

Y

The Young Man and the Sea - Rodman Philbrick (Tween)


Z

It looks like I have some letters to make up for then!

That was some work to go through my book lists but hopefully you found something to read!

Happy Reading!

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Rereading an Old Friend Again

Sometimes and especially in the summer after reading through so many new books, I love to come back to an old favorite. There are not many books that I can reread - I try but they aren't as fabulous the second time around. However, in some cases, they just get better and its like hanging out with your best friend. That's how I feel when I read Summer Sisters or Angry Housewives Eating Bon Bons or The Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood.

Last week I finished The Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood for the umpteenth time. I've lost track of how many times I've read it. I do still remember the first time. I found it at the Lakeside United Methodist Church Library in high school. I'm pretty sure I devoured it in one afternoon on the dock. I loved it so much! Then I quickly found the prequel, Little Altars Everywhere, at the Lakeside Women's Club Library. Although not as good, I loved every minute of it!

The Ya Yas are my favorite and I long for a similar group of friends. I suppose my summer sisters come closest but not even. Perhaps that's why I like it so much. Yes, there are dark parts of the story and some might say that it is more about a mother and daughter but I see it as a wonderful book of friendship. One in which friends become family and so much more. At the end of the book, I'm always sad that it's over because I hate saying goodbye to an old friend.

So, if you have not read The Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood I highly recommend that you do. You will definitely not regret it! I'd let you borrow mine but I'm a little attached to it and would fear that I might not see it again. Head to the library or bookstore and pick up a copy! It's a perfect summer read and you might just find that you feel how I do while reading that  you just met new friends that by the end of the book will be your best friends.


Enjoy and Happy Reading!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

My Favorite Books: A-Z (Part 1)

Vacation season is upon us, so have you picked out some books to read while you are traveling? Need some selections for book club? Why not try one of these? 

I'm always getting asked for book suggestions, so here are my favorite books from A-Z (Part 1). There is a good variety here and I tried to mark the genre of each book.

There are summary paragraphs and links to my reviews for some of them. Some were so much harder than I thought to pick just one, so there are more than one for most! And of course I'm probably forgetting some!

A

Anne of Green Gables - L.M. Montgomery (Children's, Classic)
Anne of Green Gables is the classic story of a young orphan girl who is adopted by a brother and sister who never married on the beautiful island of Prince Edward Island. Anne has a wild imagination and is always creating tales and assigning clever names to the island’s landmarks. She becomes bosom buddies with Diana Berry. Her other classmate Gilbert teases her about her hair, which is as red as carrots. The delightful story chronicles Anne’s life on PEI and the adventures she and her friends embark on. The movies are also fabulous!

Astronaut Wives Club - Lily Koppel (Nonfiction, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads review here. The TV show is great as well.

Others: Angry Housewives Eating Bon-Bons (Beach Read, Fiction, Book Club), Apollo 13 (Nonfiction), All the Summer Girls (Beach Read, Fiction)



B

Bloom:Finding Beauty in the Unexpected--A Memoir - Kelle Hampton (Memoir, Book Club)
Check out my blog post about this title here.

Others: Burn for Burn (Beach Read, Teen), Bridget Jones' Diary (Fiction)



C

The Castaways - Elin Hildebrand (Beach Read, Fiction)
The Castaways starts with the death of Greg and Tess, a couple trying to recover from some marital problems. After leaving their twins with friends, the couple sets out on a sail for Martha's Vineyard, drowning on the trip. The rest of the book details the summer following their deaths and how the three other couples that Greg and Tess are friends with deal with the loss. The books is full of surprises that anything else written would give away the plot twists! This is an enjoyable beach read that reminds readers to treasure friendships and the time spent together because life is short. Fans of The Castaways should also read Summerland and Summer People by the same author.

Commencement - J. Courtney Sullivan (Fiction, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Others: Cheaper by the Dozen (Memoir)



D

Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood - Rebecca Wells (Fiction, Book Club)



E

Engagements - J. Courtney Sullivan (Fiction, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads review here.



F

Forget-Me-Not Summer - Leila Howland (Middle Grade, Beach Read)
Check out my blog post here.

Others: First Lady from Plains (Biography), From Love Field: Our Final Hours with President John F. Kennedy (Memoir)




G

Girls from Ames - Jeffery Zaslow (Memoir, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads post here.

Glass Castle - Jeanette Walls (Memoir, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads post here.

Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society - Mary Ann Shaffer (Fiction, Book Club)
Check out my GoodReads post here.

Others: Grayson (Memoir), Great Gatsby (Fiction, Classic, Book Club)



H

Hurricane Sisters - Dorothea Benton Frank (Fiction, Beach Reads, Book Club)
Maisy is the family matriarch in The Hurricane Sisters. The story begins with an hilarious scene where Maisy’s daughter, Liz and son-in-law, Clayton are bailing her out of jail for walking a llama down the street. Maisy is full of spunk and passionately in love with her chauffeur who is much younger and was hired by Liz and Clayton to drive her around. The story unfolds through the voices of each of the main characters but is the story of the women, the hurricane sisters, that shines through. Liz is struggling with the homosexuality of her grown son, the infidelity of her husband and the immaturity of her young daughter, Ashley. Ashley, an aspiring artist, and her roommate, Mary Beth, are living rent free in Clayton and Liz’s beach house trying to struggle with achieving their dreams or coming to terms with reality. The theme of domestic violence is woven through the story as Liz works for a domestic violence organization and Mary Beth is a survivor after witnessing her father abuse her mother growing up but when tragedy strikes within the family, they pull together and support each other with love and encouragement. The Hurricane Sisters is a beautiful story of family and the low country of South Carolina. In the end, no matter how crazy family is, the characters realize that they do need each other more than ever.

Others: An Hour Before Daylight (Memoir)



I

In Her Shoes - Jennifer Weiner (Fiction, Beach Read, Book Club)



Others: The Island (Fiction, Beach Read), I Love You, Ronnie: The Letters of Ronald Reagan to Nancy Reagan (Memoir), In My Time: A Personal and Political Memoir (Memoir)

J

Jackie, Ethel, Joan: Women of Camelot - Randy Taraborelli (Biography)



Others: Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis: A Life (Biography), Just Kids (Memoir, Book Club)

K

Kate: The Future Queen - Katie Nicholl (Biogaphy)
Check out my GoodReads review here.

Others: The Kennedy Curse: Why Tragedy Has Haunted America's First Family for 150 Years (Biography), The Kennedy Women: The Saga of An American Family (Biography)


L

Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead - Sheryl Sandberg (Memoir, Business)
Check out my blog post here.


Others: The Last Summer of You & Me (Fiction, Beach Reads), The Last Lecture (Memoir), Leeway Cottage (Fiction, Book Club), Letters from Skye (Fiction), Life as We Knew It (Teen, Book Club), Light Between Oceans (Fiction, Book Club), Little Earthquakes (Fiction), Love Lucy (Biography)

M

Maine - J. Courtney Sullivan (Fiction, Beach Reads, Book Club)


The Memory Keeper's Daughter - Kim Edwards (Fiction, Book Club)


Others: Marley & Me: Life and Love with the World's Worst Dog (Memoir), Moon Shell Beach (Fiction, Beach Reads), Mrs. Kimble (Fiction), My Dear President: Letters Between Presidents and their Wives (History), My Father, My President: A Personal Account of George H. W. Bush (Biography)

Happy Reading!